How to Entertain Like a Southerner with Mary Catherine Folmar

Discover effortless hosting tips, vibrant tablescapes, and timeless hospitality secrets from the founder of Cotton & Quill.

The 1776 napkins, Cotton & Quill design, say everything that needs to be said about how Mary Nelle Clem entertains: with things that have a history, on a table that has seen a few hundred summers. // Photos by Jean Allsopp.

“This isn’t the house, I grew up in, but it is still very much home,” says Mary Catherine Folmar of her mama’s house, a 1929 redbrick Georgian just off the Athens, Alabama, downtown square where her grandparents used to live.

The exterior of the 1929 Georgian, recently updated, offers front porch, lawn, and backyard spaces for entertaining.

The house lends itself to outdoor entertaining on the front porch, lawn, and backyard — a recently landscaped addition by garden designer Troy Rhone. It’s certainly an easy house to come home to, and a festive venue for hosting both local get-togethers, book signings, and parties through Mary Catherine Folmar’s partnership with Lydia Menzies Supper Club.

The entertaining sensibility here traces back directly to Mary Catherine’s grandmother. Longtime dairy farmers, her grandparents relocated to Athens after they retired from farm life, but they brought their quietly elegant way of life with them — something that Mary Catherine and her mom, Mary Nelle Clem, continue to hone and enjoy.

A recently landscaped backyard by garden designer Troy Rhone with ‘Victory Garden’ connects the main house to the kitchen house, now converted into a guest suite.

“Growing up, my mom introduced me to beautiful table settings, the allure of historical design—and especially a love of Colonial Williamsburg, Virginia.”

– Mary Catherine Folmar

The world’s largest living history museum, Colonial Williamsburg, where Mary Catherine and her family would visit often on vacation offered her an immersive look at 18th-century decorative arts. This allure shines through in the way Mary Catherine’s table is set, the objects she chooses, and the ease with which the house welcomes people in.

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The dining room houses Mary Catherine’s great- grandmother’s dining table and chairs. The mirror and chandelier belong to Mary Nelle. The lamps on the sideboard are an estate sale find. The floral arrangement was created by friend and floral designer Matthew Jimmerson with Athen’s Florist. Mary Nelle picked the Queen Anne’s Lace and Thistle for Matthew to integrate into the mix.
In addition to fabric and wallpaper designs, Mary Catherine’s creative reach extends to tabletop items and a collection of fabulous finds.

Mary Catherine Folmar | Cotton & Quill

For more about her workshops, events, or products, visit cottonquill.com.

Mary Catherine Folmar and Mary Nelle Clem enjoy a shared love of entertaining and design.

This story appears in the July/August 2026 issue of Birmingham Home & Garden. To see more inside the house subscribe here.

Resources

Interior Design: Mary Catherine Folmar Garden Design: Troy Rhone Florals: Matthew Jimmerson with Athen’s Florist

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